08.02.2026 14:20
A video shared on social media sparked a major debate. The young woman responded to the question "Do you want to be someone's first?" by saying, "I'm 33 years old, and if I'm a man's first, he must be younger than me. I don't want him to try it with me; am I a charity? I want what I experience to be beautiful."
A video shared on social media sparked a wide-ranging discussion about relationships and expectations. The footage of a young woman responding to the question, "Do you want to be someone's first?" quickly went viral.
"AM I A CHARITY?"
The 33-year-old woman speaking in the video pointed out her age, saying, "I am 33 years old, and if I am someone's first, he must be younger than me. I don't want him to try it with me. Am I a charity?" She emphasized that the experience and emotional satisfaction in relationships are important to her, stating, "I want what I experience to be beautiful."
COMMENTS WERE DIVIDED
After the post, social media users were divided. One group found the woman's words sincere and honest, arguing that it is natural to express expectations clearly in relationships. The other group criticized the statements as harsh and hurtful.