An interesting incident in China has caused a great stir in society. A 38-year-old married man in Liaoning province was living with his mistress. One day, his mistress had a brain hemorrhage and was urgently taken to the hospital. Doctors determined that the man's condition was serious and required surgery. However, they needed approval for the operation. Initially, it was the mistress who brought him to the hospital, but she later disappeared. Meanwhile, the man's real wife arrived at the hospital. Doctors informed the woman that her husband's condition was very serious and that he was in a coma. The chances of the surgery being successful were quite low. The woman made a surprising statement to the doctors: she said that her husband had been cheating on her for over ten years, neglecting her, and not providing financial support. She also added that she no longer had any feelings for her husband. The medical expenses were very high, and the medical devices could only temporarily keep the man alive. In response, the woman refused further treatment and requested that the life support be turned off. This incident sparked a heated debate on social media in China. Some users accused the woman of being "heartless," while others interpreted the man's condition as a result of his "bad behavior." One user commented, "It is important to treat your spouse well because they will be the one by your side in old age." According to Chinese laws, if a patient is unable to make decisions, the approval of close family members is required. If family members cannot agree, the hospital administration can make the necessary medical decisions. However, in this case, it remains unclear whether the man's other family members were informed or whether they supported the woman's decision. This incident has brought up issues such as the importance of fidelity in marriage, who should make vital medical decisions, and moral responsibilities in Chinese society. It has also highlighted the deep wounds that long-term cheating and neglect can create in a relationship.
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