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This week's guest on the Haber Bahane program, broadcast on Haberler.com's YouTube channel with the presentation of Gökay Kalaycıoğlu, was the famous artist Safiye Soyman. Soyman, who made sincere statements about her life, explained why she did not marry Faik Öztürk.
"WE ARE NOT MARRIED, I HAVE A PHOBIA OF SIGNING"
Safiye Soyman, who stated that she was subjected to violence from her ex-husband and father, explained that this violence led to her fear of marriage. In response to Gökay Kalaycıoğlu's question, "Does Faik Öztürk have a situation that prevents him from marrying, is it because he is already married that you cannot marry?" she replied, "When I entered Faik's life, he was already a divorced man. He is not married, he is single. He had separated years before I entered his life. I have a phobia of signing due to the violence I experienced from my ex-husband and because I married at a very young age, I cannot sign that. But in my heart, he will always be a cherished man."
"I DO NOT FORGIVE INFIDELITY, I WILL ERASE 30 YEARS IN AN INSTANT"
Making sincere statements about her relationship with Faik Öztürk, Safiye Soyman said, "I do not forgive infidelity, I would end 30 years in an instant. I need to see, I need to be completely sure. It would be a lie to say that what I heard did not happen. But I need to be very sure. Until now, I haven't felt it; if I had, I would have acted immediately. If he betrays me, he should leave Turkey."
"MY FATHER BEAT MY MOTHER AND US"
Explaining that she saw marriage as an escape due to her father's authoritarian character, Soyman said, "After I got married, I reacted to my father. He was a very authoritarian man. We were beaten a lot, both my sister and I. The reason we married young was that we found an opportunity to escape from home. He was a good man, but he would beat my mother too." thus linking the roots of her fear of marriage to this situation.
"I GOT MARRIED AT 13, BECAME A MOTHER AT 14, WE PLAYED HOUSE WITH MY DAUGHTER"
Admitting that she married by increasing her age, Soyman confessed that she was a child bride. "I got married at 13, became a mother at 14. They came to ask for my sister, and when they heard that my sister was engaged, they asked for me. They increased my age, that's how I got married. I was engaged for 15 days, and I got married without understanding what was happening. A year later, I had my daughter; there is a 13-year age difference, I was so young that we played house under the tables and chairs together."
"I COULDN'T GIVE BIRTH FOR 4 DAYS BECAUSE MY BODY DID NOT DEVELOP, DOCTORS THOUGHT I WOULD DIE"
Describing the difficulties she faced due to becoming pregnant at a young age, the famous artist said, "When I gave birth to my first child, there were 4 doctors around me waiting, saying 'This one will die.' I had labor pains for 4 days and couldn't give birth to my daughter. Because my body was underdeveloped. I was screaming to be taken for a cesarean delivery. It was a very difficult birth."
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